In general, The Secular Chareidim used to migrate to the Five Towns, but stayed in the closet.
Then some started migrating to Monsey and Lakewood etc, and coming out of the closet.
Lately many have migrated to Toms River, New Jersey.
Be aware of the above.
The Orthodox Atheists, are still in the closet, they must be outed as well.
Sept. 10, 2023
Today's Daf, Shidduch Crisis and Moshiach
Today, like every day, tens of thousands will pore over
their Gemara or listen to shiurim on the daily Daf. Today however, they will
see a key to change which would better so many lives, in this world and the
next. Many will see it, but unfortunately not very many will act on it. This
Gemara is no secret, and has been seen by young and old for centuries, but in
recent years it seems to have been overlooked.
רב הונא לטעמיה דאמר: בן עשרים שנה ולא נשא אשה – כל ימיו בעבירה.
בעבירה
סלקא דעתך?! אלא
אימא: כל ימיו בהרהור עבירה. אמר רבא, וכן תנא דבי רבי
ישמעאל: עד עשרים שנה יושב הקדוש ברוך הוא ומצפה לאדם מתי ישא אשה,
כיון
שהגיע עשרים ולא נשא, אומר: תיפח עצמותיו
Rav Huna taught that one who is not married by the time he
is 20, will live his entire life with sinful thoughts. Rava, as well as Rebbi
Yishmael, taught that Hashem Himself waits for one to get married. When he
reaches 20 and hasn’t attempted to get married, Hashem says “May his bones
swell” (A curse reserved only for those who postpone marriage or for those
who deny ).תחיית המתים
This Gemara seems to be overlooked because the Gemara before
discusses one who is preoccupied learning Torah and wouldn’t be able to
continue his studies after marriage. He therefore is exempt (according to some
interpretations) from the age limit of 20. One may think this exempts all
Yeshiva students, but the truth is that this exemption only applies to someone
who need not be concerned with illicit thoughts. It is for someone on a level
higher than almost any of our day bachurim. The average, and even the best of
our boys cannot vouch on themselves that they have total control over their
Yetzer hora.
This exemption also doesn’t apply to anyone who is going to
Kollel or whose wife, parents, or in-laws will support them after marriage.
(According to R’ Moshe Feinstein, it doesn’t apply unless one won’t be able to
learn Torah even during his set time to learn because of the stresses of work.
If however he could set aside some time to learn properly, he wouldn’t be
exempt from getting married at this age.)
For all practical purposes, for almost all young men, the
correct age for marriage is before they reach 20. This Halacha is codified by
the Rambam, Tur, Shulchan Aruch, and accepted by all halachic authorities of
all times. This includes the Chafetz Chaim, Aruch Hashulchan, Chazon Ish, R’
Moshe Feinstein and so on.
The connection to the shidduch crisis is quite obvious. If
boys were to get married younger the age gap wouldn’t be there. Even if this
would cause more boys than girls according to statistics, we should much rather
have a “crisis” caused by Hashem and not one which we made ourselves. In the
former we can rely on Him, but in the later He relies on us to mend our ways.
But where does Moshiach come in? The Gemara (Niddah 13b)
says that one who marries a young girl who is not old enough to bear children
delays the coming of Moshiach. This is because Moshiach will only come when all
the Neshamos that need to come to this world have already been born. By
delaying marriage we are delaying generations from being born which in turn
delays the coming of Moshiach.
As the Yom Hadin approaches, perhaps as a people we could
aim to get closer to the age Hashem required us to get married. Many projects
have been aimed at lowering the age of our boys, but none of them seemed to
garner enough steam. Perhaps the only way to achieve this goal is not by
throwing money at the problem, or convincing people to do it for the sake of
fixing a crisis. We need to simply realize how detrimental it is for young men
to not be in a marriage at this age. They will inevitably deteriorate
spiritually and suffer with sinful thoughts for the rest of their life.
The Mahrsha comments on today's Gemara that one who isn’t married by 20 gets the not-so honorable title of .רשעThe Medrash in Koheles says that those that delay marriage are worthy of .מיתה בידי שמים
This is a serious
issue, and before the Yom Hadin it is worth examining.
נחפשה דרכינו ונחקרה ונשובה עד ה'
On December 28 and 29, 2020, the Apple Valley Health Care Center in Apple Valley, MN vaccinated its entire senior population against COVID. Everyone was delighted that the nursing home residents were now 100% protected by the safe and effective vaccine. Within the next five days, every nursing home employee who was on Christmas vacation was called back to work early, to help deal with all the dead bodies.
This horrific tale has been covered up for the past three
years now—and it’s not the only nursing home where this “weird coincidence”
happened.
If there is one area where the vaccine fanatics should have
been able to pat themselves on the back over this whole debacle, it should have
been all the lives that the safe and effective vaccines saved in the nursing
homes. After all, nursing homes were the main locations where people died of
COVID over the previous year.
The nursing homes were so
dangerous that Joe Biden’s Secretary of Health and Human Services, B. Levine, took his own mother out of a Pennsylvania nursing home to keep her
safe. Even independent journalist Alex Berenson believes that the COVID shots
offered some limited, although short-lived, protection to people in the 75+
crowd.
This would be a really easy study
for anyone to conduct. Just look at the number of COVID deaths in a nursing
home in 2020 and compare the number of deaths in that same nursing home in 2021
after every resident was given the shot. It would be that simple. Easy-peasy.
Kiss the girl, pop the champagne and take a victory lap. The shots saved
grandma and grandpa!
A whistleblower at the Apple Valley Health Care Center in
Minnesota released that exact data to Steve Kirsch a few days ago. For those
who don’t know Kirsch is a software developer and philanthropist who was
injured when he got the COVID vaccine, and he’s been on a crusade against these
dangerous and ineffective shots and corrupt healthcare officials ever since.
Whistleblowers from healthcare facilities turn internal documents over to him
because no one in the bought-and-paid-for press will cover this stuff. This is
the first nursing home data that anyone has given to him in the past three
years, and it’s been corroborated as authentic.
In 2020, before the vaccines existed, the Apple Valley
Health Care Center had 27 reported cases of COVID among its 140 residents, and
none of them died. Zero deaths in the nursing home with no vaccines. That’s
impressive any way you slice it. They kept every patient with COVID alive, and
they deserve credit for that at least.
BUT… once the COVID shots were administered, they had too
many dead bodies to cope with after the first five days. Within three weeks of
the injection days on December 28 and 29, there were 40 deaths out of 140
residents. A stunning 30% of the elderly patients just died all of a sudden.
In 2020, there were 27 COVID cases and zero deaths all year
long. In 2021, they suddenly had 90 cases of COVID in that three-week span, and
28 of them died from COVID after being vaccinated. They had an explosion of
COVID cases and one-third of them died after the vaccines were given to all of
them. And this was a facility that obviously knew how to care for elderly COVID
patients and keep them alive.
After the shots were administered, the number of COVID cases
tripled and dozens died. The additional 12 simply died from “suddenly” after
receiving the shots. The data is now clear across all age cohorts.
The COVID shots make it more likely for you to catch COVID,
no matter how young or how old you are. The shots also drastically increase
your chances of dying from COVID. That’s not safe and effective.
Steve Kirsch has called the Apple Valley Health Care Center
multiple times to try to talk to someone about what happened. They keep hanging
up on him. No wonder. Nobody wants to talk about this.
