Lakewood - the-rishus-continues-when-will-it-end- The therapists, etc are the group responsible- Sidom at it's best

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The Lakewood therapists, etc and their Rabonim etc ( a mafia style) are the group responsible for shalom Bayis issues, separations, divorces, breaking up families, etc.

We have been monitoring the methods and results of these so called therapists, etc for the past  few years.

It's not as bad as you think, it's much worse!. 

"Rishus" is too mild of a description.

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Its a Hefker velt, thats exactly how to describe what goes on when dealing with the sensitive issue of shalom bayis and  R'L divorce. There is no responsible system set up, no trusted agency al pi Torah and halacha. 

No communal standard that everyone adheres to, or even a bes din to turn to. Its unfortunate that so many homes are shattered as a result of total incompetence, inexperience in dealing with the issues and problems of shalom bayis. 
Its a Hefkervelt when any Askan, therapist, social worker or Rav, can do what they want with no accountability for their actions. They get away with it time and time again. There is no mirsas, no fear, no repercussions its do what ever you please. They dont have to answer up to anybody. 
Take one side of a story, give bad advice, dont do basic homework or due diligence its only nefashos were dealing with. So what if you have no experience in shalom bayis issues, who says you cant take it on all by yourself? no one is stopping you. No guidelines set in place making sure all 

Update: Re: שלום בית issues: Lakewood "therapists & Mentors" are רודפים

Lakewood "Therapists & Mentors" just broke another family!!
Protect our children?

Don't push "Ritalin" on them like lollipops.
Ritalin? sure! so the School administrators can provide paying clients to their therapists.


Don't let Therapist [Terrorists](backed by Rabbonim) to break apart families. [Their success rate in at 99%]

Don't let the Rabbonim and therapists run for restraining orders against their husbands, who happens to be the father of her children.
She is throwing her children to the dogs. That's what revenge is.

Don't work in unison to support financially the therapists, by sending the parents, the children, etc. to therapy.

That's perhaps why children lost their respect for Rabbonim!

Don't allow the מקוה to break families. Terrorists & Rabbonim do it constantly R"L

מקוה schedules in WG are by pay-for-play? 
Get rid of the ones in charge, from the Rabbonim down. Get rid of the corruption in WG.
Don't play dumb.

RETURN CARDS IN INVITATIONS? Why not? [just because the Girls side picks the hall, the Boys side has every right to have a say in the choice of reliable hall!]

Public Notice:

In recent months, a growing number of Lakewood ba’alei simcha have stopped enclosing RSVP response cards with their invitations.

When asked about this, their explanation is straightforward: "How can we send out return cards asking people to attend a meal when we aren't comfortable with the caterer's kashrus or standard?"

To resolve this dilemma, they are ordering the bare minimum requirement. Those guests who choose on their own to eat the catering will find food available, while the ba'alei simcha avoid actively endorsing or sponsoring it.

We anticipate more families will adopt this approach—תבוא עליהם ברכה!

A QUOTE FROM REB AHRON KOTLER Z"L

Reb Ahron Kotler said;

"The truth must be heard,

                         Even if the public doesn't like the sound of it.
Whatever the circumstances, regardless of the consequences.
                    The truth must be stated-loudly, clearly & unequivocally".
(Quoted by Bunim-Ob"m)

Israel: No one is as blind as the one that refuses to see! ISRAEL DOES NOT BELONG TO THE ZIONISTS, IT BELONGS TO THE "CHAREIDIM" AS THE TORAH STATES, IT'S LAWS MUST BE FOLLOWED!

 Israel, you are fooling yourselves completely with your peace with the the Arab countries including Qatar, Saudia Arabia, UAE, etc. all of them will stab you in the back at their chosen time.

As long as Israel, the Leftists, Kaplanists, etc. are harming the Chareidim, you'll never see any peace. But you hatred to the chareidim is way more that your hatred to the Arabs, so you'll never change.

As long as you fight the chareidim, you won't finish with the Yishmaeilim- forget the כוחי ועוצם ידי it's the hand of Hashem!