Tuesday, December 03, 2024
Coaching Vs Therapists
https://www.noomii.com/article/coaching-vs-therapy
Coaching vs. Therapy
A common misconception is that coaching is the same as therapy, when in fact they are quite different. Therapy is intended to help people recover from emotional or other psychological disorders such as depression or anxiety. Coaching, on the other hand, is intended to help normal, healthy individuals achieve personal goals such as increased happiness, weight loss, improved work-life balance. etc.
The table below shows a quick side-by-side comparison of coaching vs. therapy
Coaching and Therapy
| Coaching | Therapy |
|---|---|
| Client is emotionally and psychologically healthy | Client is emotionally unwell and in needs healing |
| Focuses on the present and future | Focuses on dealing with the past |
| Driven by goals and taking action | Driven by unresolved issues and feelings |
| Works toward a higher level of functioning | Works to achieve understanding and emotional healing |
| Results-based and focuses on exploring solutions | Explores the root of problems and offers explanation |
| Asks, “Where would you like to be and how can you get there?” | Asks, “How did that make you feel?” |
| Acts on information | Absorbs information |
| Done over the phone, internet or in person | Done in an office setting |
| Coach and client collaborate on solutions | Therapist is the ‘expert’ |
| Contact between sessions expected (accountability and wins) | Contact between sessions for crisis and difficulties only |
Update: Re: שלום בית issues: Lakewood "therapists & Mentors" are רודפים
Protect our children?
Don't push "Ritalin" on them like lollipops.
Ritalin? sure! so the School administrators can provide paying clients to their therapists.
Don't let Therapist [Terrorists](backed by Rabbonim) to break apart families. [Their success rate in at 99%]
She is throwing her children to the dogs. That's what revenge is.
Don't work in unison to support financially the therapists, by sending the parents, the children, etc. to therapy.
That's perhaps why children lost their respect for Rabbonim!
Don't allow the מקוה to break families. Terrorists & Rabbonim do it constantly R"L
מקוה schedules in WG are by pay-for-play?
Get rid of the ones in charge, from the Rabbonim down. Get rid of the corruption in WG.
Don't play dumb.
Lakewood שלום בית-Therapists (terrorists) are not the solution, they are the root of the problem!
Advice
on Responding to a Restraining Order
Unfortunately
many women are receiving bad advice from therapists, attorneys and Pseudo
Rabbonim who know nothing about Halachah. Their only interest is to pander their
client and keep them satisfied. They will never advise their client to do the
proper thing according to Halacha, when the client will not be happy with this
advice.
The result has been a large increase in the issuance of RO’s to Yeshiva Leit. The proper response is to go to Bais Din and request that they commence proceedings to render the sender of the RO a מורדת. If the Bais Din sees that there is no justification for the RO and the issuer does not retract they will commence with the proceedings. The details of what Bais Din has to do are described in Even HaEzer Siman 77.
The result has been a large increase in the issuance of RO’s to Yeshiva Leit. The proper response is to go to Bais Din and request that they commence proceedings to render the sender of the RO a מורדת. If the Bais Din sees that there is no justification for the RO and the issuer does not retract they will commence with the proceedings. The details of what Bais Din has to do are described in Even HaEzer Siman 77.
As
more women get declared a מורדת the
reputation of the advisors will deteriorate since we can now quantify that they
are giving bad advice and it is producing negative consequences to their
clients.
A second benefit is that after the proceedings are finalized there are financial advantages such as no KESUBAH (see Siman 77 for more details)
A third benefit is after 12 months you can give a GET on your terms, and remarry according to most Poskim without a HETER MEIOH RABBONUM if she refuses to accept the GET (see Siman 77 for more details).
A fourth benefit is public relations “He left her because she was a מורדת sounds better than “she threw him out”.
I
hope and encourage anyone who has received a RO to go forward with this advice
and may הקב"ה give you ס"ד to
end
these issues with Shalom.
TOSHAV
MONSEY
toshav@optimum.net
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Lakewood- שלום בית
Lakewood - the-rishus-continues-when-will-it-end- The therapists, etc are the group responsible- Sidom at it's best
http://hefkervelt.blogspot.com/2015/11/the-rishus-continues-when-will-it-end.html
The Lakewood therapists, etc and their Rabonim etc ( a mafia style) are the group responsible for shalom Bayis issues, separations, divorces, breaking up families, etc.
We have been monitoring the methods and results of these so called therapists, etc for the past few years.
It's not as bad as you think, it's much worse!.
"Rishus" is too mild of a description.
Guest comment. [Hefker velt]
http://hefkervelt.blogspot.com/2015/12/hefker-velt.html#comment-form
Its a Hefker velt, thats exactly how to describe what goes on when dealing with the sensitive issue of shalom bayis and R'L divorce. There is no responsible system set up, no trusted agency al pi Torah and halacha.
No communal standard that everyone adheres to, or even a bes din to turn to. Its unfortunate that so many homes are shattered as a result of total incompetence, inexperience in dealing with the issues and problems of shalom bayis.
Its a Hefkervelt when any Askan, therapist, social worker or Rav, can do what they want with no accountability for their actions. They get away with it time and time again. There is no mirsas, no fear, no repercussions its do what ever you please. They dont have to answer up to anybody.
Take one side of a story, give bad advice, dont do basic homework or due diligence its only nefashos were dealing with. So what if you have no experience in shalom bayis issues, who says you cant take it on all by yourself? no one is stopping you. No guidelines set in place making sure all
The Lakewood therapists, etc and their Rabonim etc ( a mafia style) are the group responsible for shalom Bayis issues, separations, divorces, breaking up families, etc.
We have been monitoring the methods and results of these so called therapists, etc for the past few years.
It's not as bad as you think, it's much worse!.
"Rishus" is too mild of a description.
Guest comment. [Hefker velt]
http://hefkervelt.blogspot.com/2015/12/hefker-velt.html#comment-form
Its a Hefker velt, thats exactly how to describe what goes on when dealing with the sensitive issue of shalom bayis and R'L divorce. There is no responsible system set up, no trusted agency al pi Torah and halacha.
No communal standard that everyone adheres to, or even a bes din to turn to. Its unfortunate that so many homes are shattered as a result of total incompetence, inexperience in dealing with the issues and problems of shalom bayis.
Its a Hefkervelt when any Askan, therapist, social worker or Rav, can do what they want with no accountability for their actions. They get away with it time and time again. There is no mirsas, no fear, no repercussions its do what ever you please. They dont have to answer up to anybody.
Take one side of a story, give bad advice, dont do basic homework or due diligence its only nefashos were dealing with. So what if you have no experience in shalom bayis issues, who says you cant take it on all by yourself? no one is stopping you. No guidelines set in place making sure all
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