As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school,
she told the children an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at her
students and said that she loved them all the same. However, that
was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was
a
little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the
year before and noticed that he did not play well with the other children,
that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. In
addition, Teddy could be unpleasant.
It got to the point where Mrs.
Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red
pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his
papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to
review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However,
when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first
grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his
work neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to be around.."
His
second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his
classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and
life at home must be a struggle."
His third grade teacher wrote, "His
mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father
doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some
steps aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is
withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many
friends and he sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson
realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when
her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and
bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the
heavy, brown paper That he got from a
grocery bag Mrs. Thompson took pains to
open it in the middle of the other presents.
Some of the children started to
laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing,
and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume.. But she stifled the
children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting
it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed
after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you
smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left, she cried for at
least an hour.
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and
arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid
particularattention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to
come alive.The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end
of the
year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class
and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy
became one of her "teacher's pets.."
A year later, she found a note
under her door, from Teddy, telling* her that she was still the best teacher
he ever had in his whole life.
Six years went by before she got another
note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his
class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in life.
Four
years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been
tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon
graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson
that she was still the best and favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole
life.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time
he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go
a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best
and
favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer....
The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.
The story does not
end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he
had met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father
had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might
agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the
mother of the groom.
Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She
wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover, she
made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother
wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each other, and
Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for*
believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing
me that I could make a difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her
eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the
one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach
until I met you."
(For you that don't know, Teddy Stoddard is the Dr. at
Iowa Methodist Hospital in Des Moines that has the Stoddard Cancer
Wing.)
Warm someone's heart today. . . pass this along. I love this story
so very much, I cry every time I read it. Just try to make a difference
in someone's life today? tomorrow? Just "do it".
5 comments:
http://www.snopes.com/glurge/teddy.asp
Please, use Google!
This story is 100 per cent true. Just lijeakk the other true things on this blog
Who says everything here is anti!
Attention school principals,
When you are sitting in that big meeting with all your fellow principals, when you decide who gets gets who, and who gets thrown to the wayside, please remember this story.
It's not about which girl makes your school look better, it's about doing what's best for each child.
[I have more to say on this topic, but we'll leave it for now.]
the veracity of the story is not important. The moral is.
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