The Lakewood therapists, etc and their Rabonim etc ( a mafia style) are the group responsible for shalom Bayis issues, separations, divorces, breaking up families, etc.
We have been monitoring the methods and results of these so called therapists, etc for the past few years.
It's not as bad as you think, it's much worse!.
"Rishus" is too mild of a description.
Guest comment. [Hefker velt]
Its a Hefker velt, thats exactly how to describe what goes on when dealing with the sensitive issue of shalom bayis and R'L divorce. There is no responsible system set up, no trusted agency al pi Torah and halacha.
No communal standard that everyone adheres to, or even a bes din to turn to. Its unfortunate that so many homes are shattered as a result of total incompetence, inexperience in dealing with the issues and problems of shalom bayis.
Its a Hefkervelt when any Askan, therapist, social worker or Rav, can do what they want with no accountability for their actions. They get away with it time and time again. There is no mirsas, no fear, no repercussions its do what ever you please. They dont have to answer up to anybody.
Take one side of a story, give bad advice, dont do basic homework or due diligence its only nefashos were dealing with. So what if you have no experience in shalom bayis issues, who says you cant take it on all by yourself? no one is stopping you. No guidelines set in place making sure all