The Lakewood therapists, etc and their Rabonim etc ( a mafia style) are the group responsible for shalom Bayis issues, separations, divorces, breaking up families, etc.
We have been monitoring the methods and results of these so called therapists, etc for the past few years.
It's not as bad as you think, it's much worse!.
"Rishus" is too mild of a description.
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Its a Hefker velt, thats exactly how to describe what goes on when dealing with the sensitive issue of shalom bayis and R'L divorce. There is no responsible system set up, no trusted agency al pi Torah and halacha.
No communal standard that everyone adheres to, or even a bes din to turn to. Its unfortunate that so many homes are shattered as a result of total incompetence, inexperience in dealing with the issues and problems of shalom bayis.
Its a Hefkervelt when any Askan, therapist, social worker or Rav, can do what they want with no accountability for their actions. They get away with it time and time again. There is no mirsas, no fear, no repercussions its do what ever you please. They dont have to answer up to anybody.
Take one side of a story, give bad advice, dont do basic homework or due diligence its only nefashos were dealing with. So what if you have no experience in shalom bayis issues, who says you cant take it on all by yourself? no one is stopping you. No guidelines set in place making sure all
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There is a special place for them in hell.
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i am surprised at Yudel. None of us know the facts how can we comment and bash before we know the truth?
Surprised Yudel taking sides without knowing facts
This therapist/ Rabbi/posek is well protected by the establishment they give him a free pass
Mesira runs in the family
Oh. Oh.
Who in Yudels family is having marriage problems??????
Thanks for having the guts to say it as is! Unfortunately yidishkeit in America ,and in the world in general has been infiltrated very heavily by goyishe values . We dont even notice it. Just take a look at the tammar epstien get case. How did great rabbis stray so far? Its a product of the bitter galus we are still in. It is our job as frum yidden to FIGHT TO ERADICATE this cancer, and i am so happy someone is speaking up.
I was shocked when I realized the male therapist had a liking to my wife, i did notice the eye twinkle among other things I noticed and realized. We have heard some male therapists that were inappropriate behaviour, etc.
I'm curious if others have noticed as well.
We know where it may (does) lead, shame on them.
You are a liar! The therapist is a selfless individual who sleeps 3 hours a night because of the burdens of the community. Speak to all the people he has helped you are a Motzei Shem Ra and a horrible person
Who know how many married women Yossi Greenfield has slept with....
Word on the street is a BJ for a GET...
As of yet it has not spread to The Chasideshe world. YOU have Rabbi Dovid Cohen From Gvul Yavetz in Brooklyn, N.Y. and Rabbi Gavriel Finkel of Vaad Hadayonim in Lakewood who give Women Blanket Heterim for Women without listening to any details or just listening to one side of the story to go to Court Call the Police and Take out Restraining orders (orders of protection) against their Husbands and have them arrested on violations and locked up in Jial
Shtengal was banned by the Judge from coming near any family members. It's alleged that with the physical abuse they endured, it almost bordered on ritzi'cha.
it's OK. Now you know why we have a shidduch crises - to give the women a natural fear of doing this retzicha.
Shtengal commentator. Alleged.. you get a special place in heLL with no way out. He was cleared of all allegations. Alleged by a wife after he did not meet her demands. You validity all the points of this post.
Lets see. Do we have 5 towns in Lakewood?
1. Westgate. 2.Spruce Gardens. 3. Coventry. 4. Lakewood.
Missing just 1. Then we can be like the original 5 Towns.
lol
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