My dearest Chaim,
As I
fasted today, I sat and reflected on what our fast is all about. Why was our
beautiful home in Yerushalayim
destroyed? Why did the presence of Hashem leave us? What did we do to drive
ourselves into this long bitter golus?
I always knew the answer, but I don't think I understood it as well
as I do right now. It was destroyed because we were judgmental of those who did
not ACT the way we wanted them to act. We were embarrassed of those who did not
DRESS the way that we wanted them to dress. We looked down at those that did
not TALK the way we wanted them to talk. And our misplaced ego caused us to
think that we are better than they are. This is what caused us to destroy
ourselves completely. Without having an ayin tovah, a
favorable and understanding eye on those around us, we are not deserving of
having the divine presence of Hashem live among us. We threw ourselves out with
our self-righteous mindset.
Which group of us caused the destruction? The ones "on the derech" or the
ones "off the derech"?
On this I sit and cry... my eyes fill with tears... the epiphany
just hit me like a ton of bricks: It was not the ones wearing the jeans (as an
example) that caused the destruction, rather, it was the ones not wearing jeans
that then looked down upon those who wore the jeans! WE are the ones who
destroyed the beis Hamikdosh and we have not yet corrected our sin! In fact,
with Torah and mitzvos being so strong... we have perhaps even strengthened our
sin... we have taken it to a higher level.
I look at myself... am I not part of the group who uses our
beautiful religion to look down at others? And if so, am I not the one
responsible for our current exile? What good is my fasting and sitting on a
floor if I cannot face the truth that "I" am currently responsible
for this tragedy?!
I now fully realize that it is not you and your friends who are
preventing Moshiach from coming... it is me and my friends!
I wrote my own kinniss: Woe is to me for I have repeated and
repeated the original sin that caused the churban! Woe is to me for I have
stabbed my own flesh and blood! Woe is to me for I took the holy Torah that is
supposed to be sweet and peaceful "dirachehuh
darchei NOAM vichal nesivosehuh SHALOM" and
I used it to form a dagger which I then used to stab you - and others - over
and over again!!
And so after a long day of fasting and contemplation, I look back
at the way that I treated you and for this I now sit and cry. My dear sweet
beloved Chaim !! How can I ever take back the pain that I caused you? How can I
ever repay you for the smiles and hugs that you so deserved... but didn't get
from me because I was too busy justifying to myself why it is OK for me to look
down at you... to judge you harshly... and to actively destroy the Bais Hamikdosh? How can I
give you back the lost years?
My dear Chaim, a long long time ago, I looked into the future and
dreamed about the day that you would grow up, mature, learn right from wrong,
wake up from your selfishness and finally come ask me for forgiveness. but
after alot of inner searching... "I" grew up, and "I"
matured, and "I" learned right from wrong, and now "I"
finally woke up from MY selfish, haughty, egotistical, judgmental attitude! And
now on this painful day I turn to you and I ask you - no, I BEG you - for
forgiveness!!
I
accept upon myself to shower you with love and affection, with hugs and kisses,
and to do everything in my power to always be there for you through thick and
thin! I pledge to work so so hard to make up for all of the pain that I caused
you. I pledge to never look down at you, your friends, or on ANY JEW ever
again. I am DONE with the negative attitude! I am DONE with being the judge and
jury to another Yid! I am DONE with thinking that I am BETTER than ANY other
Jew in Klal Yisrael. I am DONE
being a part of the problem... and I pledge that as of right this moment... I
will become a part of the SOLUTION!!
My Chaim, please open your heart to me... please open your arms to
me... hug me, hold my hand and let us build the Beis Hamikdosh together...
What do you say? Your loving Totty
6 comments:
The therapist [terrorists], mechanchim [mikanchim], etc are also to blame.
As Rav Shteinman said so eloquently "Gaivah, Gaivah, Gaivah" is the root.
Or as Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz brought out in his master oratory drosha.
The system is bankrupt and corrupt R"L.
The Churban Bayis Shlishi is here, open your eyes.
We destroyed our own homes.
How ironic that a blog like a this one would complain about such things.
If you looking to ascribe guilt for the Churban please accept it for yourself only. Not for people who didn't ask you to represent them. Because once you accept it for others you really aren't in the position to complain about people being judgemental anymore.
Seems like he could have used some parenting skills education.
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