ALERT! Tuscon Arizona area, we can not recommend the following Hashgochas- by some there are serious allegations of non-kosher making it into the community under rabbinical supervision-R"L

 YOUNG ISRAEL & CHABAD,

CHABAD OF SCOTTSDALE,

CHOFETZ CHAYIM,

EAST VALLEY KOSHER,

ARIZONA K

לתועלת הרבים -VOTE "MOSHE RAITZIK" - If you can't do that, don't vote at all !!!!!!!!!

 

Lakewood - the-rishus-continues-when-will-it-end- The therapists, etc are the group responsible- Sidom at it's best

http://hefkervelt.blogspot.com/2015/11/the-rishus-continues-when-will-it-end.html

The Lakewood therapists, etc and their Rabonim etc ( a mafia style) are the group responsible for shalom Bayis issues, separations, divorces, breaking up families, etc.

We have been monitoring the methods and results of these so called therapists, etc for the past  few years.

It's not as bad as you think, it's much worse!. 

"Rishus" is too mild of a description.

Guest comment. [Hefker velt]

http://hefkervelt.blogspot.com/2015/12/hefker-velt.html#comment-form

Its a Hefker velt, thats exactly how to describe what goes on when dealing with the sensitive issue of shalom bayis and  R'L divorce. There is no responsible system set up, no trusted agency al pi Torah and halacha. 

No communal standard that everyone adheres to, or even a bes din to turn to. Its unfortunate that so many homes are shattered as a result of total incompetence, inexperience in dealing with the issues and problems of shalom bayis. 
Its a Hefkervelt when any Askan, therapist, social worker or Rav, can do what they want with no accountability for their actions. They get away with it time and time again. There is no mirsas, no fear, no repercussions its do what ever you please. They dont have to answer up to anybody. 
Take one side of a story, give bad advice, dont do basic homework or due diligence its only nefashos were dealing with. So what if you have no experience in shalom bayis issues, who says you cant take it on all by yourself? no one is stopping you. No guidelines set in place making sure all 

Lakewood שלום בית-Therapists (terrorists) are not the solution, they are the root of the problem!

Advice on Responding to a Restraining Order

Unfortunately many women are receiving bad advice from therapists, attorneys and Pseudo Rabbonim who know nothing about Halachah. Their only interest is to pander their client and keep them satisfied. They will never advise their client to do the proper thing according to Halacha, when the client will not be happy with this advice. 
               The result has been a large increase in the issuance of RO’s to Yeshiva Leit. The proper response is to go to Bais Din and request that they commence proceedings to render the sender of the RO a מורדת. If the Bais Din sees that there is no justification for the RO and the issuer does not retract they will commence with the proceedings. The details of what Bais Din has to do are described in Even HaEzer Siman 77. 

As more women get declared a מורדת the reputation of the advisors will deteriorate since we can now quantify that they are giving bad advice and it is producing negative consequences to their clients.

A second benefit is that after the proceedings are finalized there are financial advantages such as no KESUBAH (see Siman 77 for more details)

A third benefit is after 12 months you can give a GET on your terms, and remarry according to most Poskim without a HETER MEIOH RABBONUM if she refuses to accept the GET (see Siman 77 for more details).

A fourth benefit is public relations “He left her because she was a מורדת sounds better than “she threw him out”.

I hope and encourage anyone who has received a RO to go forward with this advice and may הקב"ה give you ס"ד to end these issues with Shalom.

TOSHAV MONSEY

toshav@optimum.net

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Therapists terrorists are not the solution, but the root cause of the problem.

Update: Re: שלום בית issues: Lakewood "therapists & Mentors" are רודפים

Lakewood "Therapists & Mentors" just broke another family!!
Protect our children?

Don't push "Ritalin" on them like lollipops.
Ritalin? sure! so the School administrators can provide paying clients to their therapists.


Don't let Therapist [Terrorists](backed by Rabbonim) to break apart families. [Their success rate in at 99%]

Don't let the Rabbonim and therapists run for restraining orders against their husbands, who happens to be the father of her children.
She is throwing her children to the dogs. That's what revenge is.

Don't work in unison to support financially the therapists, by sending the parents, the children, etc. to therapy.

That's perhaps why children lost their respect for Rabbonim!

Don't allow the מקוה to break families. Terrorists & Rabbonim do it constantly R"L

מקוה schedules in WG are by pay-for-play? 
Get rid of the ones in charge, from the Rabbonim down. Get rid of the corruption in WG.
Don't play dumb.

Defining a רודף- (Rodef) = Lakewood VAAD mission statement= consistent RODEFIM,

VAAD's  Motto ; If the facts don't fit the theory, change the facts

From an Email:

In Harvard Law school they teach the following;

If the law is in your favor and the facts are not?
               Harp in the law and ignore the facts.

If the facts are in your favor, but the law is not?
Harp on the facts and ignore the law.

If neither is in your favor?
Confuse them with bs.

The VAAD is great in the last part.

RETURN CARDS IN INVITATIONS? Why not? [just because the Girls side picks the hall, the Boys side has every right to have a say in the choice of reliable hall!]

Public Notice:

In recent months, a growing number of Lakewood ba’alei simcha have stopped enclosing RSVP response cards with their invitations.

When asked about this, their explanation is straightforward: "How can we send out return cards asking people to attend a meal when we aren't comfortable with the caterer's kashrus or standard?"

To resolve this dilemma, they are ordering the bare minimum requirement. Those guests who choose on their own to eat the catering will find food available, while the ba'alei simcha avoid actively endorsing or sponsoring it.

We anticipate more families will adopt this approach—תבוא עליהם ברכה!

A QUOTE FROM REB AHRON KOTLER Z"L

Reb Ahron Kotler said;

"The truth must be heard,

                         Even if the public doesn't like the sound of it.
Whatever the circumstances, regardless of the consequences.
                    The truth must be stated-loudly, clearly & unequivocally".
(Quoted by Bunim-Ob"m)

ALERT:-De Ja Vu- Barley / beans from UNGERS "INFESTED" [Heimish Hashgochas don't do recalls] disributors may do a recall,

Don't buy the Heimish infested beans and barley

De Ja Vu
Almost every year the unger barley is infested.
October  re: ungars infested barley
http://yudelstake.blogspot.com/alert-unger-pearled-barley-infested.html

Barley (pearled) must be checked for infestation in hot tap water. Cold water does not bring them up.
ALL OTHER METHODS TO CHECK ARE NOT RELIABLE, PER INSECT EXPERTS.

Ungars Pearled barley & beans is usually heavily infested (including their cholent mix).

Israel: No one is as blind as the one that refuses to see! ISRAEL DOES NOT BELONG TO THE ZIONISTS, IT BELONGS TO THE "CHAREIDIM" AS THE TORAH STATES, IT'S LAWS MUST BE FOLLOWED!

 Israel, you are fooling yourselves completely with your peace with the the Arab countries including Qatar, Saudia Arabia, UAE, etc. all of them will stab you in the back at their chosen time.

As long as Israel, the Leftists, Kaplanists, etc. are harming the Chareidim, you'll never see any peace. But you hatred to the chareidim is way more that your hatred to the Arabs, so you'll never change.

As long as you fight the chareidim, you won't finish with the Yishmaeilim- forget the כוחי ועוצם ידי it's the hand of Hashem!